How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Does a narcissist ever get their comeuppance/karma for the vile things they've done? Such as cheating, smear campaign, etc.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Does not procrastinate.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Can you write a letter to your first love without mentioning his/her name?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

When you visit a store, do you go to shop or buy?

What I need from you?

Making more friends is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What are some tips for a girl with low self-esteem to start dating?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Does having the wrong address on my car insurance invalidate my policy?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

That's it for today.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Is using tech to track or monitor your partner’s activities a sign of love, insecurity, or control?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What are your darkest taboo confessions?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What does the Bible say about the Antichrist? How will we know when he arrives on the scene?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why does my penis look like a mushroom when it gets big?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Ask yourself:

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.